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Prima Donna: Miss Anna Elite

Posted on 01/04/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

Prima Donna: Miss Anna Elite

Miss Anna Elite is an attractive young, British prodom, lifestyle Mistress & kinkster. As a natural leading lady she’ll easily captivate you with her stunning beauty and powerful femininity, then use you for her sadistic pleasure. She claims nothing makes her pulse race quite like having a submissive at her feet, willing to endure whatever she has in store for them. Polished and stylish, Anna always dresses in the most captivating fetish attire whether leather, PVC, lingerie and of course exceedingly high heels.

Miss Anna is a prodom offering sessions from her own exclusive playspace in the West Midlands, UK (Telford and Wrekin within the county of Shropshire). Specialising in classic domination & BDSM including: strapon & pegging, CBT, degradation, chastity & corporal punishment.

Domina Anna can also be worshipped & served on-line. Make sure you check out her OF/ other fan sites or you can watch her in action on her clips stores.

Miss Anna Elite ~ All Links Here

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High-Protocol in Femdom

Posted on 25/03/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

High-Protocol in Femdom

High-Protocol is when there is a strict and formal enactment of roles for both the Sub and Dom alongside understood conventions, rules and etiquette. It has a ceremonial or ritualised aspect to it and acts to create a miniature universe where everyone can immerse themselves in their part, creating a deeper and more exhilarating level to these status positions; especially when you are publicly demonstrating this in front of both other doms and subs.

Most dommes use an honorific, a title before their name i.e. Mistress, Goddess or Lady, these are all examples of a form of high-protocol. They act to declare and formalise the domina’s status and indicate the veneration required for subs approaching them.

High-Protocol is not for every femdom relationship or scene and is, for myself in its most draconian form best employed for formal events. It can also be useful for specific or weighty scenes like a serious punishments. There are, however, some dommes who demand it at all times from their slaves. While for others protocol is not necessary at all, they may just want a hardcore masochist as stress relief or a willing sex slave.

If we consider the play between pure sadists and masochists which is focused on intense sensations/pain without any of the psychological aspects of femdom, what we mean is without the protocol. This is why they prefer the terms top & bottom rather than dom & sub. So ‘high’ protocol is an extreme form of role-play embracing total female supremacy and male submission. However, most femdom play is where these two spheres of play – the psychological/protocol and the physical side overlap to differing degrees.

The English Mansion visits Dungeon Manor – with the gorgeous Mistress Nikki Whiplash, Mistress Ezada Sinn, Mistress Evilyne, Lady Nina & Mistress Sidonia

To further help illustrate High-Protocol here are 10 common rules:

10 High-Protocol Rules
this is not an exhaustive or definite list
just some examples of femdom high-protocol

Slaves must speak only when spoken to and will always use a dominas honorific when addressing them
Slaves must not sit on any furniture
Slaves must not stand, they may crawl or ‘hobble’ walk but their heads must not be higher than any dominas present
Slaves must not turn their back on their Mistress and will give her their complete attention and focus at all times
Slaves will raise a hand discreetly if they wish to speak to their Mistress, then ask permission to speak
Slaves must ask permission to use the bathroom
Slaves must return to a specific place or position when not ‘in use’, e.g. standing in the corner hands on head; or kneeling up before their Mistress, eyes downcast, knees spread wide open, hands behind back
Slaves must be attentive and of service without being told, e.g. topping up drinks, getting on all fours to be a footstool or doormat, carrying bags
Slaves must obey their Mistress absolutely and without delay, hesitation or question, their demeanour will be submissive, compliant & duteous
Slaves must be naked, hooded, collared, locked in chastity and wear a symbol of ownership on their person, e.g. dog tag, tattoo, brand

Slaves: Useful Appendages
Slaves should be extensively instructed and conditioned in high-protocol and punished for infractions. A sub well-trained in high-protocol is a lovely appendage for Ladies to show-off in public, like a new pair of Louboutins. More useful than a handbag, they can carry bags, buy drinks, provide support for those awkward high heel moments, generally skivvy & provide endless entertainment for you and your friends as the butt of cruel inventive humiliations.

Etiquette & Ownership
There is often a misconception that if you are a collared slave and attend a high-protocol event with your Mistress, it is a free-for-all and anyone can use you. This is not the case (and you would be so lucky). Slaves who are collared, that is owned by a domme, are only for that Mistress’s use, unless she herself lends the slave out to one of her fellow dominas. It is not appropriate or polite for a domina to use another Mistress’s property; however male slaves must be respectful, polite and helpful to all the woman present no matter who they are or what their status is (i.e. switches/slave girls). Slaves may be very dedicated to their personal Mistress but this does NOT entitle them to treat other dominant women with anything other that total deference. If he is unsure of an approach he should simple defer the enquiry back to his Mistress; it is her decision not his.

There are usually spare uncollared slaves or pen slaves who are there for anyone’s use, these slaves may be taken and collared for the required periods by any dominant woman.

Linguistic High-Protocol
This is a written form of high-protocol usually found online, it is where all references to a Mistress are ‘Capitalised’ and slaves use lower-case “i”s. It started in chat-rooms in the very beginnings of the internet as it was the only way to identify one’s status. A little of this in an email can be appropriate, signed off with a lowercase name for example. If it’s overly persistent, for me, it just makes it too difficult to read.

Subs can refer to themselves in the third person (illeism), e.g. “Your boy has disobeyed you” or “This slave is useless, Miss”. This can be an expression of humility or an instruction from their dom as a deliberate way to objectify or de-personalise the slave.

Slaves should know their place and be kept under strict supervision

We’ve held a number of high-protocol events at The English Mansion. The photos shown above are from our Party At Dungeon Manor & a few summers ago, we held a Femdom High-Protocol Gala see Here Here & Here. All the footage from both of these events can be viewed inside The English Mansion.

Our Summer High-Protocol Garden Gala

The Femdom Ball
If you have always wanted to attend a High-Protocol Femdom Event then you might want to take a look at Madame Caramel’s excellent Femdom Ball and some of the other related events.

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Down In The Mansion Compound…

Posted on 19/03/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

Down In The Mansion Compound…

The Mansion compound is outside in our extensive grounds, a cold harsh environment reserved for slaves that have lost their house privileges. A place where they are kept bound or caged. Where they are used & punished by beautiful cruel dominas. So let’s have a peek at what’s been happening out there recently…

Photos from these English Mansion films:
Suffer For A Goddess Featuring: Miss Vivienne l’Amour
Caged For Sexual Service Featuring: Miss Zara DuRose
Owned By Miss Anna Featuring: Miss Anna Elite
Sidonias Chained 247 Slave Featuring: Mistress Sidonia
Courtney’s Slave Toy Featuring: Mistress Courtney

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Top Dom: Mistress Nikki Whiplash

Posted on 13/03/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

Meet Resident English Mansion Dominas
The English Mansion always invites the world’s top dominas to come over, stay and play! We thought we should salute the very best of them and show you some of their finest moments. So here’s the gorgeous Mistress Nikki Whiplash…

Top Dom: Mistress Nikki Whiplash

Mistress Nikki Whiplash is one of the UK’s premier dominatrices, a prodom, lifestyle domina, model & producer. As a beautiful, slim, ultra feminine blonde she may look sweet but is anything but! She is an expert at sounding, ballbusting, facesitting and an enthusiastic anal invader. We rarely see her at the Mansion without one of her many giant strapon cocks mesmerising the Mansion fuck slaves that await her attention!

Mistress Nikki is a perceptive, no-nonsense & experienced prodom available for sessions from Whiplash Towers her exclusive, very private, fully equipped, high spec dungeons & chambers. Her playspace is extensive and impressive with many different environments, including dungeons, subterranean cells and private outdoors areas based in South East England, UK. She is also a talented fetish film producer and international fetish model and can been seen in action or ‘connected with’ on: her members’ sites; Only Fans; clip stores; & as one of the leading fetish models for BallBusting World & Facesitting Bitches.

We highly recommend you check out all of
Mistress Nikki Whiplash’s links

So here’s the gorgeous Mistress Nikki in action…

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See also other ~ English Mansion Top Doms
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Seeing Red – Raging Women Top Ten Music Chart

Posted on 08/03/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

Welcome to The English Mansion’s
Seeing Red – Raging Women Top Ten Music Chart
Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky

Warning: This music chart may have offensive or triggering content.

We’re celebrating International Women’s Day March 8th with our special Raging Women Top Ten – no pink or soft focus flowers here!

This is an entirely female vocals chart with a strong showing of tracks all released in the last 6 years. It wasn’t a difficult chart to fill. There’s been an explosion from the vanguard of Millennial or Gen Z feminists, using music to exhibit their wrath and indignation at the disparity, ill-treatment & objectification of women. This chart steps outside our usual rules – that the tracks must be huge hits or from well-known artists. Although some were massive hits, the track from doyen pop queen Taylor Swift, an influential, inspirational, independent woman and one hell of a fighter, has had 1.4 billion views! However, a few of the songs here contain such direct or repressed female anger and violence, they would never make it into the mainstream. They are so worthy and such great tracks to boot, they need a place to shine.
There is incredible videos in this selection, well worth checking out. So don’t miss the Ball-Busting in ‘Boring’ and the POV spitting & castration reference in the mainstream track ‘Nightmare’.

Taking a look at the 45 year timeline of the tracks in this chart there’s an notable rise in anger and boldness in these female voices. In the ’70s we have Gloria passively “surviving”; in the ’90s a seething Alanis (though this track was quite shocking back then); and by the twenty-10s it’s full on outspoken rage & fury!

Seeing Red – Raging Women Top Ten
1 Whore joint with 1 Sex Metal Barbie	In This Moment (2012) & (2014)	Play Video Play Video
*2 Dead Men Don’t Rpe joint with 2 Witch**	Delilah Bon (2022) & Delilah Bon ft. Alt Blk Era (2023)	Play Video Play Video
3 Behave Myself	She Drew The Gun (2021)	Play Video
4 Look What You Made Me Do	Taylor Swift (2017)	Play Video
5 I See Red	Everybody Loves An Outlaw (2018)	Play Video
6 Boring	Lil Mariko ft. Full Tac (2021)	Play Video
7 Nightmare joint with 7 Goddess	Halsey (2019) Xana (2020)	Play Video Play Video
8 Angry Too	Lola Blanc (2019)	Play Video
9 You Oughta Know joint with 9 Psycho	Alanis Morissette (1995) Anne-Marie x Aitch (2022)	Play Video Play Video
10 I Will Survive	Gloria Gaynor (1978)	Play Video

Other contenders that didn’t quite make it into our Top Ten:

That Bitch by Bea Miller (2020) Play Video
Joke’s On You by Charlotte Lawrence (2020) Play Video
You Don’t Own Me by Saygrace ft. G-Eazy (2015) Play Video
You Should See Me In a Crown by Billie Eilish (2021) Play Video

The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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Celebrating Our 20th Year Anniversary

Posted on 01/03/2024 by Mistress Sidonia

17 Million Visitors Can’t Be Wrong!

Celebrating Our 20th Year Anniversary

Yes, we’re celebrating a huge anniversary. The English Mansion is 20 years old! We opened the site back in March 2004.

The English Mansion is 20 Years Old
The English Mansion is now fully established as Europe’s leading femdom & fetish film site. World renowned for our femdom content: films, POVs, 3DVRs, blog posts, articles, photos, new mistress introductions, fetish news, socials, domina & kinky shopping links… We could go on because The Mansion is so much more than just a website. It’s a real Mansion secreted away in a hidden countryside location. A place where Mistress Sidonia and her fellow dominatrix friends get to use and abuse willing subs. Some Mistress’ refer to it as Femdom Disneyland

The Stately Home of Femdom
So, 20 years later, we now have over 900 hours of high-quality professionally shot femdom & fetish footage. Thousands of original femdom films: fantasy stories & session style footage. And we still update new content everyday! We feature over 100 of the world’s most acclaimed & beautiful dominatrices, introducing many of them to a much larger audience; as hopefully The English Mansion’s stamp of approval comes with a certain kudos.

Mistress Sidonia Supreme Ruler of The English Mansion

Worldwide Renown & Reach
I always joke that I’m the most famous person that no one’s ever heard of. You put my name, ‘Mistress Sidonia’, into Google and get over 2 million responses. If you search ‘The English Mansion’, you get 450 million responses. Okay most of those are probably pirate tube sites stealing our traffic & content 😭, but it does show the worldwide reach and appeal of the English Mansion and its unique femdom content. And well, 17 million visitors can’t be wrong!

We set the standard for high-quality professionally shot HD and 3DVR (Virtual Reality) films, and are still going from strength to strength – not surprising with 20 years experience behind us. In some areas we’ve established what ‘femdom’ film content ‘is’ and helped bring it to a larger mainstream audience. Opening up the world of pervy sex to whole new class of would-be kinksters. Pioneering domestic FLR, FtoM strapon, femdom cuckolding, encouraged bi & kinky sex scenes, which back in the day were rarely filmed kinks but are now firmly fixed as part of the femdom film canon.

Lust In Leather.com 2005

Bringing BDSM Out of the Closet
Our soft power mission has been to allow women and men to explore their sexualities in a positive safe way. So let’s cheer together! We’ve helped bring BDSM out of the closet. Trying to disspel all the negativity and ‘Hollywood criminality/horror’ attached to it. Actual scene players know how far from the truth it is. Kink is fun, healthy play for adults; kinksters are highly creative, intelligent and articulate; kinky people are able to explore their sexual desires & thus are less fucked up all round. Seriously, it’s all the Vanilla weirdos you’ve gotta watch out for! 😜

Femdom’s Soft Power
The overarching, salient message is the promotion of women’s rights. Femdom is an important strand in the battle, it empowers women not just in the bedroom. It’s more than a way for them to achieve the sexual pleasure they want from a man. It’s helps hack away at the hackneyed stereotypes about women. We’re on a mission of world domination! Empowering women using the soft power of kink! We’re overthrowing 2000 years of female oppression, of ingrained Christian sex negativity, and the continuing manipulated fear of ‘otherness’.

The English Mistress DVD & Video

A Potted History of The English Mansion
So way back before there were film sites on this newfangled thing called ‘the Internet’ (loading would have been too slow); I set up a website in the ’90s called MissMarchmont.com where I was known as Miss Eve Harper. It focused on classic corporal punishment, featuring articles, interviews, photos and a chat forum. It made money through selling CP equipment; amateur videos via a P.O.Box; and promoting our premium rate Chat Lines.

I was also approached by GwenMedia.com, run by Mistress Isabella Sinclaire & Robert Zak, American producers of the famous high-glam latex Ivy Manor BDSM DVD series. They wanted to sell an art film I’d made of myself in my dungeon in 1998. A deal brokered by David Jackson of DDI (Domination Direct International Magazine) fame. A black-and-white dreamy piece, with a voice over, it was almost documentary like in its format, managing to capture the real interaction between a Mistress & her slaves. It was titled The English Mistress and they liked it so much, I produced 2 sequels.

By the start of the noughties Kink.com in the US was open for business, the OWK.cz in Europe & LadySonia.com in the UK.

It was time for me to join the party, so decided to set up a classic femdom film site and after the success of the videos in America, I called it TheEnglishDungeon.com, which opened in March 2004.

(Left: Promo before The EnglishDungeon.com opened Dec 2023.)

Soon after, I set up another site LustInLeather.com which focused on my love of leather, boots and gloves. Then another, TrannyTraining.com which focused on Xdressing but quickly decided to amalgamate all the content under one roof. So the website name was changed in September 2005 to TheEnglishMansion.com. This also allowed me to expand focus of the website to encompass other fetish and BDSM content like foot fetish & pony play. And, to play outside of the dungeon in the realm of domestic femdom, Miss Eve Harper, the evil harpy from Miss Marchmont was back. English Mansion members’ are quite familiar my strict domestic alter ego.

Thank You All
So, thank you all for 20 wonderful years of kink & servitude. It’s been an amazing ride, and I hope to continue captivating you with all our exploits inside The English Mansion for many years to come!
And, there’s bonus content for our loyal members & celebrations planned for later in the year.
Mistress Sidonia XXX don’t get excited those are kicks not kisses

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