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Two Women at a Window by Bartolomé Esteban Murillo (1665–1675)

SPH: Small Penis Humiliation

So what is SPH all about then? It’s a fetish where a man is subjected to offensive remarks and gestures about the inadequate size of his penis. This naturally leads to further ridicule about his obvious inability to please a woman sexually, implying his worthlessness as a man and inferiority to other more ‘well-endowed’ men.

His Teenie Weenie Peenie! Michelangelo’s masterpiece ‘David’ is supposed to be a symbol of strength and youthful male beauty*… and yet he did have a very small one 2/10

Cock Mocking
This castigation of his manhood can also focus on its shape, girth, the way it  ‘dresses’ (hangs/bends), grooming, lack of tumescence (hardness) or propensity to PE (Premature Ejaculation aka Prejac). Pretty much anything can be pointed out as a flaw that makes his penis undesirable, unworthy and inadequate to satisfy a woman. SPH has no bearing on the actual size of the cock. Most of the guys who wanted a good cock mocking from me had perfectly normal sized cocks.

Dick Rating
Dick Rating is a way for men to consensually share pics of their dicks, most commonly this is for SPH, though it can be for cock worship or a genuine review.

Primal Humiliation
Verbal erotic humiliation can be exhilarating and a powerful tool for the woman or domina employing it. The penis is considered an important symbol of masculinity, with its size representing both virility and status for men. Plus it needs to ‘stand to attention’ and be sexually competent in order to procreate and continue a male line. Attacking these primal notions of manliness through humiliating his manhood and his inability to fully sexually pleasure a woman, calls into question their whole existence as men.

Cuckolding
It is also common as the basis for cuckolding as if a husband’s cock is too small to pleasure his wife, after much belittling of his member, she will inform him she intends to take a lover, an alpha male with a ‘proper’ cock. She may even put her well-hung young studs cock next to her husbands weenie in order to make a comparison –  to further humiliate and compound his uselessness to her.

These remarks are only for comic effect, usually SPH focuses on erotic verbal humiliation

*In the ancient world these depictions of ‘tiny flaccid penises’ were to signify a man’s rational intellect and mastery over his base passions, i.e. he was not subservient to his sexual desires (cock). Verses the giant dicked sordid satyrs with their exaggerated erections.