Welcome to The English Mansion’s On Your Knees – Woman Worship Top Ten Chart Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
This chart features songs that totally put women on a pedestal as supreme goddesses. These tracks capture the intoxicating obsession and fervor of basking in the presence of a superior woman, transcending mere romantic love to embody total adoration. I’ve also included the bold demands these divine women lay down for those lucky enough to serve them. (Both Venus and Beggin’ are covers from ’60s songs: Shocking Blue 1969 & The Four Seasons 1967.)
Other contenders that didn’t quite make it into our Top Ten:
On Your Knees by Grace Jones (1979) Play Video You Really Got Me by The Kinks (1964) Play Video Get On Your Knees Nicki Minaj ft. Ariana Grande Play Video I’m A Slave 4 U by Britney Spears (2001) Play Video Femme Fatale by The Velvet Underground & Nico (1967) Play Video
The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts
Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky ~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.
Step into the commanding presence of Miss Jessica Wood, a strikingly beautiful and naturally dominant force whose strict, no-nonsense demeanor demands absolute obedience. With an unrivaled expertise in Classic Corporal Punishment, her formidable right arm delivers precise and unforgettable lessons in discipline. While her tongue dispatches sharp verbal chastisements to the intractable. Based just outside Greater London in Watford, UK, Miss Jessica is a Mistress of Discipline and CP related role-play, weaving captivating femdom scenarios in office, academy, and domestic settings.
Her specialties include expertly administered caning, strapping, OTK spanking, and stern reprimands alongside intense clothed facesitting, trampling, ballbusting, and wrestling scenarios. For those who crave structure and surrender, Miss Jessica’s commanding elegance and skillful control promise an experience where missteps are corrected, and your full submission is required.
Miss Jessica Wood also tours for sessions (check her website for dates & cities), or can also be worshipped & served on-line. Make sure you check out her fan sites or you can watch her in action on her various clips stores.
Celestial Studios Derby:
A Unique Haven for Kink & Creativity
Tucked away in an industrial estate of Shardlow, Derbyshire, Celestial Studios is a hidden gem that pulses with alternative culture and unbridled creativity. Housed in a 250-year-old warehouse along the River Trent, this isn’t just a studio space, it’s the UK’s ultimate playground for kinksters, content creators, and photographers. And, the venue for a host of clubs, hands-on fet-workshops, lively BDSM events, and fun socials. Founded by the fetish icon Mistress Vivienne l’Amour, this once-crumbling grain store has been reborn since December 2016 as a dazzling, carefully crafted kinky haven. Its discreet location near the A50, and Junction 24 of the M1, provides nearby on-street free parking, and an unassuming exterior that conceals the extraordinary world within.
12 Themed Rooms – Studio Hire
Step inside, and you’re greeted by 12 jaw-dropping themed rooms that cater to every fantasy you can imagine, and some you haven’t dared to yet! From a sleek medical suite and sombre medieval dungeon to a nostalgic office, gritty prison cell, and elaborate suspension suite, the variety is unmatched for BDSM sessions, photography, or cinematic creations. Add in top-notch amenities like showers, restrooms, small fetish shop, bar serving snack and drinks, and free Wi-Fi, and you’ve got a space that’s as comfortable as it is fabulous. With room for 150 people across two floors, you can hire a single room, one floor or the whole venue, with discounts for longer bookings or multiple spaces.
Event & Play Space The studio’s industrial, alternative edge, paired with an arsenal of cutting-edge equipment, makes it the UK’s biggest and boldest BDSM facility. Vivienne l’Amour’s dream of a space for wild parties, play sessions and filming back drops has exploded into reality. With Celestial now offering consultancy for creators, model management services and membership deals. Celestial Studios isn’t just a venue, it’s a community that thrives on safety and inclusivity. For members it opens the door to exclusive events like the legendary Circus Maximus parties (which are held at the studio every two months) and hands-on fetish workshops. Membership comes with perks like hire discounts and a free drink at select events.
Realise Your Fantasies “Realise Your Fantasies” isn’t just a motto, it’s a battle cry for those ready to embrace their desires in a safe, inclusive, creative space. Celestial Studios is a blazing beacon of kink and inclusivity in the East Midlands. This isn’t just a play-space, it’s a launchpad for creators to weave their wildest visions and a sanctuary for those ready to push boundaries. Curious? Dive into Celestial’s world via their website, social media, blog/newsletter, or by joining their vibrant community of kinksters and alternative crew who make this place unforgettable.
With its intoxicating mix of old-world charm, modern flair, and a fearless ethos, Celestial is more than a venue, it’s where fantasies come alive, creativity runs wild, and everyone’s invited to celebrate the wild, the sensual, and the spectacular. Ready to step into the magic? Celestial Studios is waiting.
Miss Ruby Marks is a beautiful, graceful dominatrix with a slim, super fit body. Impressive and cosmopolitan this lady is highly intelligent, educated and cultured. Which can been seen in her creative approach to BDSM scenarios. She’s one chic fetish fashionista, always stylishly attired and smartly coiffed in unique fetish outfits.
As a strict disciplinarian and an authority on corporal punishment those under her supervision soon learn to behave or suffer for any infractions. Expertly verbally berating and bringing down to size any charge that disobeys her, with her crisp exacting English voice. Though she is primarily known for her traditional CP scenarios; she is also a highly experienced and accomplished classic Dominatrix, versed in all aspects of training submissives.
Miss Marks is an online domina and talented content producer who makes incredible and particular femdom content. Specialising in: corporal punishment role plays; ‘women on girl’ domination; encouraged sissy dressing; and strapon play. So make sure you watch her in action on her clips stores or check out her OF or other on-line link-ups.
A Beginner’s Guide
to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt3 Or everything you ever wanted to know about male chastity cages
Keyholder Solutions and Safety The keyholder (whether a partner or yourself) plays a critical role in chastity. Safety is paramount, especially for emergency access.
1. Traditional Padlocks & Keys ♦ Keep a spare key in a secure but accessible location, like a locked box with a code only you or your partner know. ♦ For solo users, consider sealing the key in an envelope with a signature to prevent impulsive unlocking. ♦ The number one problem I have experienced with key padlocks is the keys breaking in the lock! Always use a quality padlock and key, if the key or keyhole is becoming degraded (they do get wet a lot or lathered in sad pre-cum tears) replace them immediately. ♦ The advantage of using a traditional metal padlock is that it provides a strong psychological sense of security, as the tangible, physical act of locking and unlocking feels definitive and can become a ritualistic act. The weight and feel of metal padlocks contribute to this perception, making them a trusted choice for securing belongings. Additionally, padlocks can serve as ownership markers when engraved with ‘Property of’ followed by a name or initials.
2. Numbered Plastic Lock Tags Plastic lock tags are cuttable plastic numbered tags that can be used instead of locks, they are lighter than traditional padlocks and can be quickly removed in urgent or emergency situations. They are numbered so your keyholder will always know if this is done without their direct permission.
Recommended: Personally, I think Plastic Lock Tags are the perfect solution for beginners and short-term chastity play: they are lightweight, unbreakable, easily removable in an emergency, and numbered, so you’ll always know if they’ve been removed—it’s unlikely the sub will be able to find another. Better than padlocks, which can be picked or there might be ‘other keys’ in play!
Keyholder Solutions
3. Key Safes A key safe with a combination code is a great option for emergency access. Share the code with a trusted partner or store it securely. (You can also use ones with timers to great effect as part of chastity games. Back in the day I would post keys back to subs, they would have to wait patiently by the post box for their release to arrive. What could go wrong!)
4. Digital Devices Some modern chastity devices integrate with apps, allowing remote locking/unlocking. These are ideal for long-distance relationships but require a reliable device, internet and battery management!
5. Safety Protocols ♦ Agree on a safe word or signal for immediate removal, no questions asked. ♦ Check in regularly with your keyholder to discuss comfort and emotional well-being. ♦ If swelling, pain, or injury occurs, remove the device immediately and seek medical advice if needed.
Additional Tips for Beginners
♦ Hygiene is Critical: Clean the device and your skin daily. Remove the device for thorough cleaning every few days, long term uses will need a more regular cleaning plan/schedule.
♦ Start with Open Designs: Devices with open tips or ventilation holes are easier for beginners to manage.
♦ Experiment with Activities: Test the device during different activities (sitting, walking, exercising) to ensure it’s practical for your lifestyle.
♦ Mental Preparation: Chastity can evoke strong emotions, from excitement to frustration. Be patient with yourself and communicate openly with your partner.
♦ Community Support: Online forums or communities (like those on Reddit or FetLife) offer tips and support from experienced users. Always verify advice with trusted sources.
Common Challenges and Solutions
♦ Erection Discomfort: Morning erections are normal. Relax, breathe deeply, or take a cold shower to reduce arousal. Devices with slight give (like silicone) can help.
♦ Chafing: Apply a thin layer of lubricant. Switch to a larger ring if irritation persists.
♦ Difficulty Urinating: Align the device properly and sit during urination to minimise mess. Open-tip devices are easier for this.
♦ Emotional Struggles: Feeling restricted can be intense. Set clear time limits and check in with yourself or your partner regularly.
Wearing a chastity device can be a rewarding journey, whether you’re exploring personal boundaries, deepening intimacy with a partner, or submitting to the control of a dominant partner. Start with a well-fitted, comfortable device, build up wear time gradually, and prioritise hygiene and safety. Accessories like lubricants, stockings, and locking tags can make the experience smoother, while open communication with your keyholder ensures trust and enjoyment. Listen to your body, take breaks when needed, and approach chastity with curiosity and care. With patience and practice, chastity can become a fulfilling part of your sexual journey. Enjoy the exploration, and play safe!
A Beginner’s Guide
to Wearing a Chastity Device Pt2 Or everything you ever wanted to know about male chastity cages
Extreme & Advanced Devices & Styles Extreme chastity devices, such as tiny “micro” cages, those with sharp pegs or teeth, and designs incorporating sounds, are specialised options intended for advanced users seeking intense restriction, discomfort, or control. These devices push boundaries beyond standard chastity, often blending physical restraint with elements of pain or extreme submission.
These devices are only for very experienced Advanced users, those comfortable with urethral play, extreme BDSM players or consensual dynamics involving pain & punishment.
♦ Micro Chastity Devices These are ultra-small, tiny cages, often called “nub” or “micro” devices, designed to compress the penis to an extremely confined size, sometimes less than an half an inch in length. The cage tightly encases the flaccid penis, preventing any expansion or erection. The extreme confinement can cause discomfort, especially during attempted erections, amplifying the sense of restriction and control. Hygiene requires diligence due to limited airflow.
♦ Chastity Devices with Sharp Pegs or Teeth These often metal cages feature internal spikes, pegs, or “teeth” (blunt or sharp metal points) that press against the penis, particularly during arousal or attempted erections. Designs vary, but quality designs allow for the depth of these pegs to be adjusted using a hex key. The “teeth” may line the interior of the cage or focus on specific areas, like the shaft or tip. When flaccid, the pegs may be barely noticeable, but any erection causes the skin to press against the spikes, delivering discomfort or mild pain as a deterrent against arousal, heightens discipline, and appeals to those into pain play.
Extreme & Advanced Devices & Styles
♦ Chastity Devices with Sounds These incorporate a urethral sound, a thin, smooth rod (usually metal or silicone) inserted into the urethra, attached to or integrated with the cage. The sound may be fixed or removable, often locking the cage in place. Some use metal for rigidity, with a hollow or solid sound (4-8 mm in diameter, varying lengths). Some designs align the sound with a cage tip for stability and deeper control. The sound restricts urethral access, prevents full erections, and creates a unique, invasive sensation, ranging from mild pressure to discomfort, especially during movement or arousal. Lubrication and sterilisation are critical. They provide intense control, unique psychological and physical sensation, and high security. Howver carry the risk of urinary tract infections, discomfort, or injury if not properly sized, cleaned, or lubricated; they are not suitable for prolonged wear without breaks. Always research reputable manufacturers for quality and reliability.
♦Testicle/Ball Cages Chastity cages also exist for male testicles, these devices are designed to encase and restrict access to the testicles, in order to limit sexual access or for ultimate control. (These ball cages can be highly effective for men with erotically sensitive testicles – preventing all-round pleasure denial.) They typically consist of a ring and round cage structure, usually metal, are often weighted for added sensation and can have internal teeth.
Important Considerations/ Risks Extreme devices carry risks, are only for experienced users they must fit properly, need hygiene management. Research reputable manufacturers and consult a kink-aware professional if unsure.
Starting Out: How Long to Wear a Chastity Device
Wearing a chastity device is a gradual process. Rushing into long-term wear can lead to discomfort or problems. Here’s how to build up wear time safely:
♦ First Things First: Prior to putting on a chastity device consider abstaining for a few days or even a week to get accustomed to the feelings. It might feel exciting to start your first denial period in a chastity device, the reality is that the combination of coping with the device and managing your desire to orgasm can be challenging if you’re not prepared.
1. Initial Wear
♦ Start Small: Begin with short sessions of 1–2 hours while awake to get accustomed to the sensation. Wear the device during low-activity periods, like watching TV or reading.
♦ Check for Comfort: After each session, inspect your skin for redness, chafing, or numbness. Mild redness is normal, but persistent pain or discolouration means the device is too tight or needs adjustment.
2. Gradual Build-Up
♦ Daily Wear: Once comfortable, extend wear time to 4–6 hours daily over a week. Experiment with light activities like walking or sitting.
♦ Overnight Wear: After a week of successful daytime wear, try wearing the device overnight for one night. Ensure you’re in a safe environment with access to the key in case of discomfort.
♦ Extended Periods: Gradually increase to 24–48 hours, then up to a week, always listening to your body. Most beginners take 2–4 weeks to comfortably wear a device for extended periods.
3. Listen to Your Body
Your body will signal if something’s wrong. Watch for: ♦ Pain or Numbness: Indicates a device that’s too tight or improperly fitted. ♦ Chafing or Irritation: May require lubrication, a different material or a better quality device. ♦ Swelling or Discolouration: Stop wearing immediately! ♦ Hygiene Issues: Sweat or poor cleaning can lead to infections. Clean the device and your skin daily with mild soap and water. This is often the number one issue with chastity devices they (unfortunately) need to be regularly removed and cleaned fully.) Those wearing chastity for long periods, anything over 24hrs especially 24/7 must work in a daily cleaning ritual. ♦ Take breaks if you experience discomfort. It’s normal to need time to adjust.
4. Basics, Accessories and Tools for Comfort
♦ Basics: Put on your chastity device while you are flaccid!!! With base rings learn to push each ball separately through the base ring, if it a fixed size.
♦ Cotton Buds: Cotton buds (Q-tips) can help guide the penis into the cage, especially for smaller or curved devices. Use it to gently adjust positioning without forcing the skin. Or to push the skin down to prevent pinching when closing the ring/device.
♦ Lubricants: Use water-based lubricants to ease the device onto the skin and reduce friction. Avoid silicone-based lubes with silicone devices, as they can degrade the material. Apply a small amount to the base ring and cage interior before putting it on.
♦ Waist Belts: Belts provide additional support and security especially for heavier devices.
The Stocking Method Help For Putting on Difficult cages
♦ For male devices, putting on a tight cage can be challenging. Use a thin, clean stocking (like a nylon or pantyhose), cut off below the knee:
1. Pull the cut stocking over the penis. 2. Slide the cage over the stocking, guiding the penis into place. 3. Gently pull the stocking out, leaving the penis inside the cage.
This method reduces pinching and makes application smoother obviously doesn’t work with more extreme or covering devices.
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Miss Jessica Wood: Mistress of Discipline
The studio’s industrial, alternative edge, paired with an arsenal of cutting-edge equipment, makes it the UK’s biggest and boldest BDSM facility. Vivienne l’Amour’s dream of a space for wild parties, play sessions and filming back drops has exploded into reality. With Celestial now offering consultancy for creators, model management services and membership deals. Celestial Studios isn’t just a venue, it’s a community that thrives on safety and inclusivity. For members it opens the door to exclusive events like the legendary Circus Maximus parties (which are held at the studio every two months) and hands-on fetish workshops. Membership comes with perks like hire discounts and a free drink at select events.
Celestial Studios website
A Beginner’s Guide
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