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Music To Whip Guys By – Erotic Top Twenty #1

Posted on 19/10/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

Welcome to The English Mansion’s Top Twenty
Music To Whip Guys By ~ Erotic Mix #1
Our musical play lists dedicated to all things kinky

Welcome to our Top Twenty music chart of songs which exude sensuality and dark passions making them perfect for BDSM session play. Music is an essential backdrop to a scene it sets the mood and has an effect on our emotions. From high-energy dance for serious whipping to slow erotic ambient beats for more sensuous play; a scene moves through many phases and the right play-list compliments the action.

I’ve chosen these tracks for the vibe they have, not for the words necessarily and certainly not for the videos. So here are 20 classic erotic tracks for BDSM session play. I’ve tried to choose music from different decades and genres making it quite an eclectic mix. These are some of my personal favourites tracks all that have great pervy memories for me 🙂

Music To Whip Guys By ~ Erotic Mix #1
1 Erotica	Madonna (1992)	Play Video
2 Falling In Love Again	Christina Aguilera (2008)	Play Video
3 I Feel Love	Donna Summer (1977)	Play Video
4 Bela Lugosis Dead	Nouvelle Vague (2006) or Bauhaus ( 1979)	Play Video Play Video
5 Bad Things (Club Mix)	Jace Everett (2005)	Play Video
6 In The Deep joint with 6 Nude	Bird York (2003) Radiohead (2008)	Play Video Play Video
7 Amphibian	Björk (1999)	Play Video
8 Paradise Circus	Massive Attack (2010)	Play Video
9 Becomes the Color	Emily Wells (2013)	Play Video
10 Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing	Chris Isaak (1995) or Collide (2009)	Play Video Play Video
11 This Is Hardcore	Pulp (1998)	Play Video
12 Seedy Films (Richard X Remix)	Soft Cell (1981)	Play Video
13 Licky	Princess Superstar (2008)	Play Video
14 Dirge	Death In Vegas (1999)	Play Video
15 In The House – In A Heartbeat	John Murphy (2003)	Play Video
16 Wicked Game	Chris Isaak (1989)	Play Video
17 Play Dead	Björk & David Arnold (1993)	Play Video
18 Principles Of Lust joint with 18 Moments In Love	Enigma (1991) The Art Of Noise (1985)	Play Video Play Video
19 Blackout	Muse (2003)	Play Video
20 Forbidden Colours	David Sylvian & Ryuichi Sakamoto (1983)	Play Video

And pretty much anything by these artists, who are all favourites of mine: Portishead, Goldfrapp, Massive Attack, Tricky, Craig Armstrong, The xx, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Dead Can Dance & Rob Dougan.

The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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Remote Control (Femdom Voyeurism)

Posted on 14/10/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress Sidonia has been privately advertising a new exclusive service for professional women who fantasise about and want to engage in Femdom but due to personal circumstances want complete anonymity. They can now visit The English Mansion and watch a live scene in an adjacent room via a webcam and more importantly also direct the action via a headset worn by Mistress Sidonia. She listens to their instructions and then uses the ‘play-meat’ as suggested.

It may also appeal to those who have always fantasised about being a dom, owning a slave or even have a specific fetish, however as yet, they are just not ready to take the plunge themselves but would be happy to watch and/or make suggestions as to what happens to the slave. Mistress Sidonia will keep the webcam up close on the action and then just follow the instruction she is given by the anonymous watching voyeur and even recorded it – so they can take away a copy of the action to enjoy or show friends’ afterwards.

Mistress Sidonia has told me she is thinking of extending the service for Hen Nights good money for her but she suspects he may be ‘hard going’ on her subs – well that’s a slave’s life.

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Medical Fetish – Playing Doctors & Nurses

Posted on 09/10/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

It’s Medical Fetish feature month at The English Mansion.

It has always struck me that in life, the only occasion where you have to obey or do things you don’t want to do it is in medical situation – we must submit to another’s authority. This person is a stranger and often indifferent to us. We may have to be naked, it can be embarrassing, we are prodded in our most intimate places.

I think this forms the basis for a medical fetish, it has parallels with sub/dom as you are compelled into obedience. There is also an innate submissiveness to being naked, examined and often hurt through painful procedures.

I don’t have a medical fetish per se but I do have a cruel streak and so have always had a thing for ‘weird science’ where I like to use a captive male for my ‘experiments’. Turn them into little lab rats, treated indifferently for the purpose of my wicked investigations or use them as human guinea pigs – perfect for trying out new equipment 🙂

At The English Mansion in 2013 we’re having Special Feature Months, this month we’re featuring Medical Fetishes with special films, blogs & fiction – so get ready first up is the Medical Milk Maids.

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Adventures in Bondageland

Posted on 03/10/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

Kept In Bondage for 48 Hours
One of my personal loves is bondage, particularly when it is elaborate and inescapable. It’s a huge turn-on for me for have a slave totally at my mercy, hooded, suspended, dehumanised, turned into a new creation for me to toy with. I’m also fascinated with Sendep (Sensory Deprivation) scenes and have experimented with mummification, white-noise, ear plugs, extreme hoods and other devices to achieve the most extreme effects. Interestingly, it can sometimes unexpectedly become a spiritual experience and not just a sexual one for the player.

I have a huge number of bondage fantasies, many so unusual they require me to build my own equipment/devices or have them commissioned for me. So a few weeks ago I started building some new kit for an elaborate session I had planned for one of my slaves. I had decided I was going to keep him in complete bondage for 48 hours basically an entire weekend. Starting on the Friday evening and finishing on the Sunday evening, with long periods in sendep and two overnights in bondage.

Croquet Anyone?
I had something special planned for the Saturday with some metal hoops (which were hacksawed down), these were hammered into the ground and used in conjunction with steel bondage ball mittens & head ball. These were recently made for me by AllNaughtyFunForYou and I was looking forward to trying them out. I also had a grill put onto one side of the head ball (not visible in this photo) which allows some access to the sub – perfect for this weekend’s scene as it allowed me to pee in his face and then leave him with the aroma for a few hours.

Most of the preparation for the weekend was building the Sendep box which I wanted to use in two different ways: firstly, for extreme mummification where I had the idea of using foam to prevent the sub having any movement while wrapped; secondly, for an extreme sendep scene where I used 4 insertable pillories to further isolate and immobilise the boxed sub. I had also evilly decided to use it as a pain box – as my sub would be left for 4 hours in complete sendep to heighten the pain sensations, mainly from electrics that I left him in. It was hugely sexy for me knowing he was left like that, in the box, in such torment.

It was actually quite a complicated process, and this was the second attempt with both the box and foam as it initially needed a rough prototype to work out how best to build and use it.

The bondage below (and 1st photo above) worked really well – seat-belt webbing, industrial staple gun and a huge board (so big it had to be delivered by B&Q), it was easy to adapt/change and completely inescapable. I used it in conjunction with my F-Machine which I love, it’s so flexible and easy to use. Perfect for leaving my poor subbie strapped down and left being fucked for a few hours.

strapping-bondage-torment

The slave slept in my purpose-built cell on the Saturday night, hooded in chains under the watchful eye of my webcam but on the Friday I decided to leave him locked up overnight in the outdoor underground slave pit. I did have a few concerns about the build up of CO2 and hypothermia (it was the end of September) but luckily it was a mild night and I checked on him throughout. Though I don’t think he had much sleep leaving him nice and pliable for more abuse the next day 🙂

You’ll be able to see ‘some’ of what happened over the weekend in upcoming movies showing at The English Mansion (unfortunately some of the play would be too much for the censors).

Posted in -Femdom Films News, -MSVB's Wicked Exploits, Bondage, Top EngMan Films | Tagged bondage, gags, hoods, mummification, sendep, sensory deprivation | 3 Comments

A Ponyboy’s Life Pt2: Femdom Fiction

Posted on 29/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

A Ponyboy’s Life Pt 2 – An English Mansion Story
(Read Part 1 Here)
I was now ten months into my ‘work contract’, when the big day I had sensed was looming – finally arrived. My employer put me into a new, elaborate, body and head harness which incorporated a metal cock cage and my arms were pulled back and strapped up. Today it had been ‘tarted’ up with lots of red ribbons. Attached to it was a bit gag for my mouth, eye-blinkers, reins and a special saddle. A huge anal plug with a long black tail was inserted. I now understood why I had been made to sleep with bigger and bigger plugs each night for the last month. Lastly, she clamped little bell clips to my nipples that jangled when I moved. I could see my employer was very pleased with her new creation – Me!

After a long ride in the back of a dark truck, I was pulled out by the reins, my eyes blinked to get used to the light. And what a sight! There were maybe 10-12 men like myself all harnessed up each with female owners fussing over them, some were even being petted. I was taken to a paddock and left chained up. Eventually my employer collected me, she looked stunning, wearing tight jodhpurs, shiny riding boots, a crisp see-thru tight white blouse and stock that showed her very ample breasts. She held a long cruel whip in her hand and wore spurs on her boots. Taking me to a block she mounted me, (I now knew what the weights on my back had been for), then rode me around the arena, showing me off to the other ladies there.

Cruel Spurs at The English Mansion

Something seemed to be happening, there was a flurry and all the ponymen were lined up each with a Lady riding them. I realised it was a race, I heard a pop and felt my employer urge me on just like our months of training. I acted on impulse and streaked ahead. I could see a board saying 10 laps and around I went. At 6, I then felt her whip on my rump and the crowd of onlookers shouting and cheering. By the time it said 2, I was exhausted pouring with sweat but now there were only two other ponymen keeping up with me, it was close, her whip kept bearing down urging me on cracking loudly on my sore backside. One lap to go just me and one other head to head, it was then I felt her spurs and I made that last push and she had won. Cheers everywhere. I wanted to collapse but collected myself. I was taken back to the paddock area, lots of the other ladies came to look at me, poking and groping.

That was almost two months ago and I have strangely started to enjoy my simple life of obedience to Her. Out of the blue I was taken to her office, she informed me our agreement was at an end, a year had passed. I didn’t want to go, I didn’t care about the money, I had nothing to go back to. I begged her to stay on, on any terms she wanted. She seemed pleased and said yes she would keep me for another year but now another line of training would have to be explored…

Posted in -Fiction & Writting, English Mansion Short Stories | Tagged back riding, head harness, ponyboy, riding mistress, riding slaves | 2 Comments

Well Hello, Dominant Dolly!

Posted on 20/09/2013 by Mistress Sidonia

As I have often expounded, domination/bsdm takes many forms usually guided by the practitioner, as different dominas each embrace their own unique style of domination. We are therefore pleased at The English Mansion to welcome a very special dominatrix T-Girl Dominant Dolly.

Dominant Dolly is the TV Mistress who has ‘everything’. She specialises in TV/CD dressing, bondage and humiliation and of course is perfect subs who want to improve their cock sucking/worship training. She loves teaming up with other strapon clad Mistresses giving poor subbies the ultimate ‘spitroast’ experience; or after training him on their strapon they can improve his cocksucking with the real thing, getting right up-close to make sure the subbie is working hard, ‘whipping’ him along if necessary.

Watch Dominant Dolly in action at The English Mansion.
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