Mistress Sidonia's Femdom Blog

I never suck cocks but do like biting the small useless ones – hard! And, there’s nothing better than a nice cruel nail wank.

What is it about a hooded guy in elaborate bondage that makes me so wet and hot, it’s always been one of my absolute favourite kinks. I guess I like having them totally at my mercy – using, teasing, tormenting and making them suffer. Watching them squirm, making them beg, but ultimately knowing I have control over their total being. I love them not knowing when I will release them, how long the torment will go on. (When you are in bondage time passes in a different way – much slower.) It also dehumanises them, once tied and hooded they’re just a new toy, existing to serve me, nothing more.

It’s also my preferred way to have sex. I like to tie up men and fuck them or push my wet cunt and arsehole into their little gaping mouths. I like to be on top to fuck, I like to take what I want, how I want it. That’s why I love a hooded, mummified guy, it turns him into nothing more than a mouth and cock. A kind of human sex toy, much better than a vibrator – I’d much rather have a real hard, warm cock any day. Once a guy is dehumanised in bondage that’s all he is – something to be used and abused. I don’t give a thought to his pleasure because that’s not why he exists.

I have ambivalent feelings about whether I should let a slave cum – I mean I get nothing out of it but a spent useless slave who has gone off the boil, however, it can be used effectively as a reward. Though even then, I quite often spoil it at the end with a ‘ruined orgasm’ – I enjoy their suffering and it reminds them of the power I have. I have found that some slaves need to be regularly milked (they’re just like cows really) to keep them compliant (and I guess it does have health benefits, I do believe slaves should be kept fit and well). While other subs must be kept for long periods in chastity or indoctrinated abstinence (i.e. the threat of me whipping their cock if they cum!) as they work so much harder with the promise of release as a possibility.

I thoroughly enjoyed this long-term bondage during Day 5 of my Real-Time Footage 247 Slavery (see my other blogs). I designed it so my slave (property) could be left for a long period: no stress points; posture collar doing its medical job supporting the neck as well as immobilising it; web/slavecam so slavey was constantly monitored; and a chastity device with a built-in sound and bucket strategically placed. I’m just so kind 🙂