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6 Reasons Why
Men Should be Kept in Chastity
or The Pleasures of Erotic Sexual Denial
So what is Chastity play? It’s where a boytoy/sub/slave is prevented from touching their genitals, masturbating or orgasming, save at the whim or choice of their domme/partner. Usually achieved by means of a metal/plastic cage-like device that is locked around/over their cock. However, it can also be a verbal agreement. This chastity can be a temporary state for a few hours or days; or can be a lifestyle where chastity is maintained over extended periods.
1. Fidelity From Afar
Chastity devices were originally designed to keep the wearer faithful. Thus having his crown jewels locked away – so he can’t play away – is totally reassuring as it ensures his complete fidelity. In this way chastity devices also help deal with habitual cock wankers ensuring they aren’t off self-pleasuring themselves. Masturbation drains their desire of you and therefore should be controlled, monitored, curtailed or stopped entirely.
2. Focus
This effect and benefit is what I call ‘focus’, by keeping him in chastity, even when you are physically sexually engaged with him, forces him to focus on you and your pleasure. He should be giving you orgasms, and lots of them! If you don’t allow him to cum or even have that as an option, he has to be immersed in your pleasure; your pleasure becomes his pleasure. We all know the effect that cumming can have on a man – his small brain flips to food and football! So just don’t let him cum. Motivate him with what we employ at The English Mansion – the 50 equals 1 rule (that a slave must give me 50 orgasms to earn just one for himself).
3. Sexual Reprogramming
This leads to another use – controlling his sexual desires. His chastity device should ensure that he can’t even get an erection (not without a lot of pain 😉 ) So, as soon as the device comes off he’s hard and hot for you. Keeping him always desperate, ready for sex, pliable and agreeable. Now is the time to steer him towards what you want sexually. His simple male brain can now be reprogrammed and his desires corrected e.g. only allowing him to get hard and/or cum while being fucked with a strapon or when licking your pussy 🙂
4. It’s Hot! Teasing & Total Denial
Teasing him in chastity i.e. keeping him in a heightened state of sexual arousal for a long time and then denying him an orgasm, as a woman can be so hot. Keeping him in a weakened state begging for release – pathetic, pliable & attentive. Knowing you have total control over him and you can use his sexual arousal against him to your advantage – the perfect male manipulation material. Never let him assume he will get an orgasm when engaged sexually with you, it should be at your whim or earned; and preferable after a very long period of abstinence.
5. Ownership
Putting your slave into an obligatory chastity device can symbolise ownership, like a collar or a body marking. Dommes often keep the key on their person as the ‘key holder’, sometimes on a chain around their necks. While the locked sub is reminded constantly of your control from afar – that you own him, his cock… and rule his desires.
6. Feminisation
Chastity devices can also be useful for compulsory male to female transformations. Locking away his male genitalia permanently will help emasculate him. There are gorgeous ‘pussy’ chastity devices that will look super cute. Or the more extreme, padlocked genital piercings, i.e. a PA or 2x foreskin piercings locked to a guiche ring in the perineum. This also has the benefit of pulling the cock back between the legs, to lock it up, thus refining his figure and getting rid of this ugly unfeminine disfigurement.
Now with so many good reasons – let’s get those bad boys locked up. It’s for their own good!
Chastity Femdom Films Now Showing
We adore Chastity play here at The English Mansion and have loads of films focusing on erotic sexual denial, here are just a few:
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Mistress Sidonia, I originally meant to spend more time writing in response to this article, but instead got “waylaid” on the piece about your favourite chastity device.
I touched there on my TOTAL sexual enslavement to, and SO successfully achieved by, my adored Goddess. We could NEVER go back to the old days. She has been SO empowered, and further sexually “liberated” by Her control (by that I mean demanding and getting ALWAYS and EXACTLY what She wants sexually from me, Her slave object/property), and I am SO incredibly contented and excited by relinquishing ALL control and my so-called “freedom” to misbehave to Her. The whole thing is INCREDIBLY MARVELLOUS. As a result, we have NO doubt about the fundamental and vast SEXUAL SUPERIORITY of Women over males, nor about the very REAL logic and far-reaching benefits for both sexes of male sexual surrender to wise Female authority. Other forms of submission, of service, many vanilla, flow naturally from that realisation, and certainly not forgetting the far deeper intimacy and sense of completeness, of oneness, that a very close and loving couple like us experiences daily… despite the best efforts of vanilla life to constantly “throw spanners in the works”, I might add!
In conclusion, Mistress Sidonia, I wish to UTTERLY testify as a completely sexually enslaved and contented slut that the reasons you have listed above for choosing Erotic Sexual Denial for males are ALL desirable, ALL achievable, and ALL definitely erotic. May I just add that Goddess did not achieve Her sexual control without, apart from Her determination, VERY VALUABLE advice and assistance from other Female belivers and practicioners? Women helping each other for THEIR greater good!
Sorry for “going on” but my Goddess and I, now approaching our seventh year into it, really both are complete and highly enthusiastic converts to Absolute Female Sexual Authority. It’s SO damned LOGICAL and SATISFYING!
I apologise for adding even more (!)… but may I add that we say that I now live under Her “Total Pussy Control”.
I agree with all of the above, but have never experienced in aw shucks/sucks.
Not only that , as i have small penis i love to keep it in a cb6000s it will be very good for me also i cant wear any clothes in home if i wear this chastity device i must be naked all time when mistress in home
Love the feminisation aspect of chastity, and intrigued by sexual re-education of it.
would love to be in chastity and dressed and serving as a maid
I adore my Jail Bird and have some very Interesting looks when wearing my cycling shorts.
Usually, I get a lot of chastity users who are interested in it for sexual repression purposes, but this brought a new perspective to me. Sexual reprogramming is something that I’m diving into. The thought of him getting turned on in every way that I choose to train him is hot.
Agree Fiestry it can open up a whole new world of dynamics for both parties.
This is quite an old posting with some of the replies dated from 2013 – Nevertheless, it has not aged one bit.
An important reason, which cannot be emphasised enough is the third one mentioned – sexual reprogramming.
As society moves towards being a gynarchy it is essential that men’s subservience and obedience in all things is re-enforced to remove all aspects of selfishness and mysogeny.
Wearing a cage is an important sign of obedience to Domina, which can be a joyful act of subservience by owned creatures.
This post was yes, based on the bones of an old article but it was substantially rewritten, changes were made to reflect the deeper understanding of this area of play, along with lots of new photos.
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