The Birth of The Fetish Scene

The Birth of The Fetish Scene
Or How a Glove Puppet Rat Started It All

The bastard child of the Marquis de Sade had a difficult labour – taking, appropriately, 169 years from his death to 1983, when the hand of a very famous TV glove puppet rat set the modern UK fetish club scene in motion.

Meet The Rat
In the neon-drenched London club scene of the early 1980s, amid the dying embers of punk and the rise of New Romantic excess, a most unlikely figure helped De Sade birth the modern fetish underground – a cheeky, glove-puppet rat named Roland Rat. Yes, Roland Rat the wisecracking TV rodent who, voiced and operated by actor David Claridge, stormed breakfast television and saved a struggling TV-AM – ITV’s new breakfast telly show.
(For younger readers – Roland Rat was an absolute superstar on British TV back then! Not just TV-AM, he has his own TV Show and even a Top Twenty Hit “Rap Rapping”.)

Skin Two Club, Soho
Before Roland Rat became a household name, Claridge had a very different vision for late-night London. In 1982, fresh from the Blitz Club and the New Romantic whirlwind, he and his creative partner ‘Bill’ (latex pioneer Daniel James) hatched a plan that would change the world. On Monday 31st January 1983, in a discreet basement, the original Skin Two Club opened its doors at Stallions, a gay venue in Falconberg Court, in London’s Soho – and the contemporary fetish scene was born.

David Claridge had already co-hosted legendary club nights. But it was a trip to a notorious New York S&M club in Manhattan that lit the spark. London needed something like this… stylish, inclusive and unapologetically fetish-forward, not the stuffy, secret raincoat-clad scene of the previous decades. The pair brainstormed names over lunch with friends, including music journalists Tony Mitchell and Bev Glick. Options included Second Skin, Skin Two, and the more obscure Under Three Layers (a nod to a cult latex film by AtomAge founder John Sutcliffe). Skin Two won out evoking the idea of latex or leather as a sleek “second skin.”

Some 80s & 90s Fetish Nostalgia

‘Bill’, a theatrical costumier, make-up artist and mask-maker, was the perfect collaborator. He had already begun experimenting with latex fashion, creating the club’s first rubber garments on the fly. The duo approached venues and found Stallions.Photographer Peter Ashworth shot the first promo images at Claridge’s flat, featuring ‘Bill’s’ girlfriend Lesley Beaumont in the very first rubber dress he’d ever made, and model Sue Scadding in a catsuit.

So on that cold January evening in 1983, a small crowd descended the stairs into Stallions. The dress code was strict: rubber, leather, uniform or drag, but street clothes were strictly banned. At the opening night, AtomAge founder John Sutcliffe was the guest of honour and brought a copy of his cult latex film Under Three Layers for screening. The atmosphere was revolutionary for its time. This wasn’t a seedy backroom or a secretive society meeting. It was a cool, creative space where pop stars rubbed shoulders with housewives, models, artists, and clubbers. Fetish was celebrated – a fashion movement was beginning. 

Rat’s Dirty Night Out: Tabloid Exposé

Claridge’s double life couldn’t last forever. As Roland Rat exploded in popularity on TV-AM, complete with his cheeky catchphrases and tabloid appeal, the British gutter press eventually got wind of his night-time activities. When the connection between the wholesome children’s TV puppet and Soho’s fetish basement made headlines, Claridge had to step away. Claridge’s involvement became a quirky footnote in fetish lore, one that many dismissed as urban myth until the full story resurfaced in recent retrospectives.

Maîtresse Club
After David Claridge had to step away, the Monday night event at Stallions continued without him under new management for a few events, but the original Skin Two wound down.
The club immediatly reopened under the new name Maîtresse in the same venue Stallions, on the same night (Mondays). It kept the same strict dress code and attracted a similar creative, mixed crowd. This name change happened fairly soon after the original launch (late 1983 or early 1984). Another notable connection was Jacquie O’Sullivan, the replacement member of Bananarama. She has openly declared that she helped run the legendary fetish club Maîtresse.

Skin Two Magazine
The switch freed up the name ‘Skin Two’, which was then used by Tim Woodward and Grace Lau when they launched the now famous Skin Two Magazine in 1984 (initially as a small fanzine) to document and expand the scene. 

The First 3 Issues of Skin Two Magaine

From Soho Basement to Global Fetish Empire… Thanks to a Rat!

And what began as a one-night-a-week experiment in a Soho basement grew into a global phenomenon: rubber balls, international fetish clubs, latex couture, thriving mail-order businesses, and an entire subculture that reshaped fashion, music, and sexual expression. The modern fetish scene owes its vibrant, inclusive roots to two ambitious ’80s clubbers… and one very famous glove-puppet rat. Who would have thought that a cheeky rodent with a gloved hand up its backside would help usher in an era of sexual freedom, creative expression, and second-skin glamour. David Claridge may have had to hang up his organiser hat when Roland took centre stage, but the club he co-founded with Daniel James proved far more enduring than any TV puppet. It showed the world that fetish wasn’t fringe or forbidden – it was fabulous, and it was here to stay.

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Fresh Debauchery at The English Mansion 2026


Fresh Debauchery at The English Mansion 2026
We’ve been getting up to some serious kinky debauchery here at The English Mansion this year… have you been missing out?

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Debauchery in Progress Inside The Mansion
Come & Take a Peek  – Spring 2026 Gallery


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Penis Envy: My Perfect Strapon Cock

Penis Envy: My Perfect Strapon Cock
And A Few Essential Strapon Tips

When shopping, I find it impossible to find the right dick. So if there are any bespoke fabricators out there, this would be my perfect strapon cock in style, looks, and design.
Yes! I thought I would pass on my wisdom to strapon manufacturers everywhere. You’re welcome 😉

Length & Texture
Long enough to stay put without slipping out mid-thrust. I like to be able to maneuver it around, watch the cock slide in and out, so need some extra length, (also great for filming otherwise you see nothing as it’s all disappeared inside.) If you want girth it should increase as it get deeper, so a cock that widens at the base. With big balls to act as a bumper – no accidental hilt-deep surprises. The anus has two sphincters: the outer one you control; the inner one auto-relaxes top-down (nature’s poop highway). A fingering at the start is essential to trigger the inner muscle, to relax both. Short dildos keep popping out like a bad jack-in-the-box and don’t always reach that 2nd sphincter. A long, slim, dick keeps the party inside.

The Tip
The tip/head/glans should be smaller than the rest of the cock helping entry. The cock should be mainly smooth (preferably not cut) not creating a place for any mess to lodge itself. Easier entry, no poop-trapping nooks.

Soft Top, Stiff Base
The top half of the total length should be super-soft jelly silicone. Bends like a drunk noodle, follows rectum curves, finds the path of least resistance. Graduating to the base which should be firm and proud. Lets you pound away without folding like origami, or worse, slipping out and ruining the rhythm. Control the chaos!
Quality silicone is my choice for its soft feel, realism and ease of cleaning, (soak in Milton for 20 mins is ideal, or use a condom!)

Big Balls
Non-Negotiable!
Huge, heavy wrinkled balls are essential for me, I want my sub to snuffle, lick and suck on them – so humiliating and the perfect opportunity for hot, sexy eye contact. Peak shame. Plus they serve a function, they stop you stuffing the whole thing inside. Like a car bumper – yes let’s get those cocks “balls deep” but no more!

For Anal Fucking Machines the same idea, but even longer, thin soft tip + rock-hard base, no balls needed. And, remember machines don’t get tired, but rectums do, don’t let them file a complaint!

Realistic – Penis Envy
I like a strapon cock that looks and feels as realistic as possible, red head, soft jelly skin.
I want it to feel like My cock when strapped on. Realistic veins, yes sure but if realism clashes with function (like a giant ridge that traps… debris), function wins. My priorities are it looks hot, but not hazardous.

Male Anatomy 101 – Angles Matter
When using a strapon it’s important to know where the prostate and the bowel sit in a male’s body. Remembering that strapon cocks are usually much harder and bigger that real dicks and so can easily damage the inside of the bowel.

  • Doggy style: Cock curves up. Prostate… hook finger down to nudge it.

  • Missionary*: Cock angles back toward their butt (vagina-ish). Prostate sits up front, hook finger up and in like you’re scooping gold.

If you are fucking a sub from behind, then the cock is going up. To gently finger the prostate hook your finger in and down. If you are fucking them on their back which is easier and preferable, then the dick is going back towards their bottom, a similar angle to a woman’s vagina. However, to finger the prostate (which sits up almost at the back of the cock), you need to hook your finger up and in to rub it.
So, r
espect the plumbing or pay the price. 

Bottom line: Realistic, long, soft-tipped, hard-based, big-balled – that’s my kinda cock! Now go forth and conquer those butts – safely.

* Missionary is my preferred view btw, I can stare at them while I pound them. If I’m feeling mean I can spit in their face; or in a sexy mood I can grab their cock and move it in similar motion to the fucking.

Interested in thoughts from those on the receiving end, in the comments. MSVB

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Maneaters – Femdom Top Ten Music Chart

Welcome to The English Mansion’s
Maneaters – Femdom Top Ten Music Chart
Our musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky

Well this was a very eclectic mix with songs from every decade – from the 1960’s to today. With so much choice from kinky boots walking all over you… to humiliating his small penis! There’s lots of fur in this Top Ten – in the title of Venus in Furs but also donned by Madonna, Eartha Kit & Marilyn Monroe.

While Honor Blackman and Patrick Macnee showed us that The Avengers (a 60s TV show) was sparking a deep interest in leather, boots and powerful women—even if it was only on a subliminal level in the more innocent general population. This music track Kinky Boots went on to title a very famous noughties film and later musical. And check out those dance moves from Nancy Sinatra—awesome!

Oh, I just found it funny to include Cliff 🙂 Not surprisingly there were a lot of contenders, leaving quite a few excellent tracks that didn’t make it into the Top Ten.

Maneaters – Femdom Top Ten
1    These Boots are Made for Walking
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1   Kinky Boots
Nancy Sinatra (1966)

Patrick Macnee & Honor Blackman (1960)

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2   Erotica
Madonna (1992) Play Video
3   Maneater
Hall & Oats (1982)
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Nelly Furtado (2006)
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4   Short Dick Man
20 Fingers ft.Gillette (1995) Play Video
5   Killer Queen
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5   Boss Bitch
Queen (1974)
Doja Cat (2020)
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6   DADDY Victoria De Angelis (of Måneskin) & Ashnikko (2025) Play Video
7    Independent Woman
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Bad Girls
Destiny’s Child (2001)
M.I.A. (2012)
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8   Venus
Bananarama (1986) Play Video
Queen Of Pain
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9    Sexy & I Know It
The Cramps (1997)
LMFAO (2011)
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10 Wicked Game
Chris Isaak (1989) Play Video

Contenders that didn’t quite make it into our Top Ten:

I’m Too Sexy by Right Said Fred (1992) Play Video
Venus In Furs
by Velvet Underground (1967) Play Video
Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves
Eurythmics/Aretha Franklin (1985) Play Video
I Wanna Be Evil
by Eartha Kitt(1953) Play Video
Evil Woman by ELO (1976) Play Video
“In These Shoes?” by Kirsty MacColl (2000) Play Video
Devil Woman by Cliff Richard (1976) Play Video
The Female of the Species
by Space (1996) Play Video


The English Mansion’s Kinky Music Charts

Take a look at our other musical Top Tens dedicated to all things kinky
~ to be included the rules are: they must be big hits or tracks from internationally well-known performers.

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MSVB’s Femdom Blog: 17 Million Views & Counting!

World Peace… Achieved.  And all it took was a little more rope, some ball gags, a few canes and plenty of “yes Mistress.”

MSVB’s Femdom Blog: 17 Million Views & Counting!
Yes, Mistress Sidonia’s Femdom Blog has just hit another wonderful milestone — 17 million views since we started counting back in August 2010! We used to celebrate hitting each new million every two years, then it sped up to every year, and now we only reached 16 million, just six months ago!  That’s roughly 85,000 visits every month from people all over the world who are curious about female domination, fetish, and the wider world of BDSM.

100,000 followers on X/Twitter
We’ve also reached 100,000 followers on X/Twitter, (though a recent platform purge has caused a small dip.) We’re also on BlueSky here for anyone who has moved over https://bsky.app/profile/englishmansion.bsky.social

Celebrating 17 Million Views!
A big thank you to all our regular readers, members, fellow dominatrices, kink enthusiasts, and everyone who has supported the blog along the way. Your visits and encouragement have made this possible. Whether you’re brand new to femdom and BDSM, an experienced player, a dominant, a submissive, a kinkster or simply a curious vanilla visitor who wants to learn more — you’re very welcome here! This blog is designed as a friendly, inclusive space to help you discover and understand the unique world of Female Domination and BDSM.

Where The Strong Are Worshipped & The Weak Are Crushed

This blog is an inclusive hub of all things femdom, BDSM & Fetish

Profiles & Links to some of the World’s Top Dominatrices
In-depth Femdom, BDSM & Fetish articles
 Fetish Art, Photography & Comics    Kinky Music Charts
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7 Ways To Turn A Man Into Your Slave

Stunning Miss Vivienne Hardy shows her boy who’s on top in their relationship!


7 Ways To Turn a Man Into Your Slave
Some Basic Femdom BDSM Slave Training Tips

1. Give Him a New Name
this helps in the process of making him let go of his old self and become something you created. It also helps re-enforce his new status as your property.

2. Keep Him in Chastity
you retain the key and establish the rules about its use and when, if ever, he is allowed any self-pleasure.

3. Make Him Wear a Sign of Ownership
24/7 he should be made to wear a sign of his owned status. Collars are a standard item but are not practical for everyday wear. While until the relationship reaches a true maturity a tattoo or branding are also not appropriate (these should NOT be entered into lightly). However, a discreet piercing or secret item of jewelery, for ex. a ring or chain should be worn at all times. You could even make him paint his toe nails pink.

4. Set Out a Way for Him to Greet You
Assuming you are meeting in a private environment, he should be tutored in how to formally greet you (this is the first time he has seen you after a period of absence). This can be a position to get into: kneeling down, hands-on-head, face lowered; or to get down on his knees and kiss your shoes. If you meet out in public you may also need a special clandestine greeting like a discreet hand kiss.

(I know for prodoms this will likely be to kiss their boots but it was always super horny for me with certain personal slaves, to have them come up to me pull down my undies and lick my arse whenever first in my presence. I liked how it set the tone for the meeting, reminding them of their place in my world.)

5. Require Him to Carry Out Menial or Hard Labour Tasks
He must regularly complete a supervised task, this should be housework, gardening or admin. This is of course useful and a service to you but it has a more important purpose; it reinforces his menial status, keeps him occupied and crucially keeps his body physically tired and thus less likely to edge towards any recalcitrance.

I have set long physical tasks (or exercise programs alongside reduced calorie diets) for willful slaves as I like to have their bodies fully exhausted before I start to break them psychologically 🙂 Plus if you are a proponent of female supremacy it’s the perfect way to address the current gender bias towards housework. Let’s get the boys scrubbing!

6. Demand Obedience 
If he transgresses from any of your rules he must be punished for these infractions. Punishments are usually corporal, like a physical beating but they should fit the slave to make sure they really are unpleasant, and thus a proper penalty. So a slave who enjoys CP could, for ex. have his time in chastity extended. (Continued disobedience should result in dismissal.)

7. Enforce a Submissive Demeanour
This demeanor and attitude should be enforced across every aspect of his relationship with you, for ex., where he may sit, how he should address you, used for your WS etc. I also believe that fucking him regularly with a strapon cock is a perfect way to indoctrinate him further into submission. For personal slaves this should encompass sexual submission to you where he must be schooled in the art of sexually pleasuring you.

Gorgeous Mistress Courtney has this man where she wants him!

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