I was truly honoured to receive an invitation from the stunning and formidable Miss Suzanna Maxwell (left) to exhibit some of my personal femdom art collection at her prestigious Decadence event, held at the magnificent Maxwell Manor, last year. Hanging every piece proved a touch too intricate in the timeframe, so we opted for a slideshow instead. The artworks were projected in glorious, larger-than-life scale across the walls of her pristine white boudoir room – creating a display that had everyone hooked.
Over the years, I’ve been incredibly fortunate to be painted, illustrated, and captured by a multitude of exceptionally talented and kinky artists, including: Sardax, Incubus6, Vince Ray, Ruth Ramsden, ShinyHeel/Luxxxley, China Hamilton, Phetishskin, Julian Murphy, Mesmerboy & Fielding. This has allowed me to amass an impressive collection of portraits devoted to myself. Alongside these, I’ve also acquired—or been gifted—a select few other cherished pieces that hold special meaning. To give you all a glimpse of the magic from that evening, I’m going to share a very small selection here on my blog. These are reduced-size versions of some of the artworks that graced the walls—enjoy.
Good BDSM play involves intense physical, sexual, psychological and emotional exchanges, sometimes as a consequence of this the submissive goes into an altered state. This is often referred to as ‘Subspace’. It is a difficult experience to define as it both manifests and is experienced differently by different subs.
What Is Subspace?
Physiological subspace is the euphoric ‘high’ a submissive can enter during an intense scene. It is typically triggered by sustained pain, pleasure, or a combination of both. This triggers the sympathetic nervous system (fight-or-flight response), the body’s natural defense, producing adrenaline, endorphins, dopamineand serotonin. This also happens during intense exercise or extreme sports. They produce an analgesic effect and a feeling of euphoria and exhilaration. This dramatically increases the submissive’s pain tolerance, allowing the scene to reach much higher levels of intensity.
SubDrop
Submissive’s often describe the experience as a floaty, spacey, almost trance-like state—like drifting gently out of your body.These euphoric sensations are one of the reasons many people pursue BDSM; the feeling can be deeply pleasurable and surprisingly addictive. The downside, however, is that the day or days afterward, a submissive may feel emotionally drained, exhausted, sad, or empty. This experience is commonly known as ‘subdrop’, an emotional and physical low experienced by a sub/bottom after an intense scene. It begins anywhere from a few hours to a few days after the endorphin rush fades and can last from several hours to several days.
The Kinky Cocktail BDSM play can prompt the release of key neurochemicals: Serotonin – which promotes feelings of calm, contentment & emotional well-being. Adrenaline – provides the initial rush, heightened arousal, and energy. Endorphins -natural painkillers that also create euphoria. Dopamine – associated with pleasure and reward.
Bondage Bliss It’s important to note that not all physiological subspace experiences are triggered by pain. Many submissives reach an equally powerful ‘natural highs’ through deep relaxation rather than intense stimulation. In prolonged bondage, sensory deprivation, or scenes such as mummification, the body shifts into a profound parasympathetic state — the opposite of the adrenaline-fueled fight-or-flight response. This deep surrender and physical immobilization can trigger the release of calming and pleasurable neurochemicals.
The result is often described as a heavy, dreamy, meditative floatiness – sometimes called ‘rope drunk,’ ‘bondage bliss,’ or a deeply peaceful trance. This type of subspace feels less like an adrenaline rush and more like melting into a warm, heavy, blissful fog. This shows that subspace is not one single experience, but a spectrum. Whether achieved through intense sensation or profound relaxation, both pathways can produce powerful altered states that many find deeply rewarding.
Psychological Subspace
More complicated is psychological subspace – an altered state where you submit so entirely to another you lose yourself, it is overwhelming and not rational. It is closely connected to the acute feelings of lust and love when in a new relationship. And, can be unhelpful if playing with someone you don’t know well as it can make you vulnerable.
A conscientious Dominant partner understands both types of subspace and the significant responsibility that comes with the power they hold. When guided with care, skill, and awareness, this altered state can be used to elevate a BDSM scene to profound levels of intimacy, connection, and shared sexual ecstasy for both the Dominant and the submissive.
I’m going to pick out my prized English Mansion toys and tell you all about them in a series of blogs called ‘These are a Few of My Favourite Things’. So in no particular order:
No. 19 – Leather-Rose Paddle
I absolutely adore this paddle. It is breathtakingly beautiful — a true bespoke masterpiece, utterly one of a kind in the world. Crafted and gifted to me by my dear friends at AES, who specialised in exquisite, hand-made leather CP equipment. It’s a solid wooden paddle with intricate leather inlays of a striking single red rose nestled among sprouting acorns. This picture truly doesn’t do the paddle justice. The level of intricate leather craftsmanship, every delicate petal of the rose and finely detailed acorn has been hand-cut, layered and inlaid with such precision and skill by a expert leather craftsman. This is not just beautiful — it is a true work of art.
The emblem and its symbolism is important – I am the Goddess who surrounds herself with chosen submissives and moulds them into devoted, obedient slaves. I shape them through training and discipline until their loyalty and service grow ever deeper – existing solely in absolute devotion to me within the stable of slaves who belong to me.
And My ‘M’ Paddle What does the M stand for? The M is for ‘Mistress’ but also for the ‘Matriarchy’, The New World Order where woman take over and subjugate all males! I think the world would be a far more peaceful place… though not so tranquil for any recalcitrant beta males. Be warned!
I was also gifted a another handmade wooden paddle from a US devotee, specially made to match my ‘uniformed bitch outfit’. Another treasured implement. Both paddles are completely unique, one-of-a-kind pieces — and together they perfectly represent every single side of my dominance.
When I wrap my hand around either of them, I feel that delicious heavy weight and perfect balance… and I smile knowing exactly what I’m going to do with them. So make no mistake… these are not just decorative ornaments. They are real instrument of correction and I use them without hesitation to keep my slaves firmly in line. They’re real, tangible extensions of my power — devastating reminders and beautiful instruments I use to train, correct and remind my slaves exactly who they belong to!
Photo from: Punished Fuck Puppets featuring Mistress Sidonia & Miss Zara DuRose
Play Toy For Two: Femdom Fiction
Strapped to the bench, my whole body was in spasms of ecstasy as the electricity buzzed around my cock and balls. It seemed ages since Mistress Sidonia had left the room and I was desperately trying to avoid coming for fear of punishment.
The door flew open, Mistress Sidonia and a tall blonde girl, dressed in a short black skirt, white blouse, black stockings and spike heeled shoes, swept into the room. Without a word the blonde girl disconnected my cock ring from the electricity while Mistress Sidonia undid my straps, grabbed me by the hair and dragged me to the floor pushing my face at the blonde girls feet.
“Kiss them slut,” she said “this is my slave bitch but to you another woman to serve and obey” I eagerly began kissing the blonde girls shoe as she put her other foot on my back, grinding her heel into my skin.
“Remember slut no talking and only look at us if commanded, you are just our sextoy, you belong to me and your only role is to obey our every wish and command” barked Mistress Sidonia “any disobedience will be severely punished, Now get up on your knees and show my slave bitch some proper respect!”
The blonde girl turned her back to me and flipped up her skirt to reveal her bare un-knickerd bottom. Mistress Sidonia grabbed me by my hair and shoved my face into the blonde girl’s arse.
“Lick it, kiss it, worship it slut, I want her to feel your tongue right up her arse-hole.”
I obeyed eagerly pushing my tongue deep into the blonde girls tight hole-hole. She let out a little moan of pleasure as I worked her with my tongue. After a few minutes Mistress Sidonia clicked her fingers and I fell back onto my knees, my eyes cast to the floor. Mistress Sidonia squatted before me and lifted my chin so my face was just inches from hers.
“Open your mouth slut” she hissed. I opened it wide and she spat into my mouth.
“Swallow it slut” she whispered ” Your mouth belongs to me, it has too uses, to kiss and worship us with your tongue and to serve as our urinal, you’ve had some toilet training so you know what to expect and I know how you crave my p*ss. But first its time for you to become our sex appliance, stand for inspection slut”
I jumped to my feet, legs apart, hands on head. The blonde girl started to bind my cock and balls tightly pulling my cock back between my legs and running a leather thong from it up my back to my collar. She then strapped on a strap on dildo to my front before pushing me over the whipping bench and securing my hands to the sides of it. Mistress Sidonia fitted me with a gag which had a large rubber dildo attached to the front of it. The blonde girl stood in front of me and stripped herself naked, I felt my cock harden at the sight and winced in pain as the leather thongs dug into my skin. She grabbed my hair and pulled my head up and eased the gag dildo into her cunt.
“Come on bitch I want to see you fucking yourself on that cock” barked Mistress Sidonia who proceeded to beat my arse rhythmically with a riding crop, causing me to lunge forward pushing the dildo deeper into the blonde girls cunt as she writhed and thrust her hips into my face.
“That’s it slut boy fuck that bitches cunt with your face” Mistress Sidonia shouted. The next instance a dildo was inserted in my arse, Mistress Sidonia had donned a strapon and started to rhythmically fuck my arse, pushing me forward and the gag dildo deeper into the blonde girl. This continued for maybe ten minutes, I felt as if I was being ripped apart as Mistress Sidonia kept ramming into me.
“Your just our fuck toy slut, to be used and abused for our pleasure” she said breathing heavily. The blonde girl was fast approaching orgasm, the dildo wet with her juices slamming in and out of her cunt.
“Dismount bitch” shouted Mistress Sidonia ” un-strap the slut and get him on the floor face up. “I was dragged to the floor, my strap on dildo sticking up at 90 degrees from my body. Mistress Sidonia removed her strapon while the blonde girl removed my gag.
Mistress Sidonia straddled my body and slowly lowered herself onto my strapon I watched as she impaled her cunt with the large dildo and started to writhe on it.
“Eyes up and mouth open wide slut” she whispered “Squat over his face bitch I want you to p*ss in his mouth while I fuck myself on his strapon cock.”
The blonde girl squatted over me her dripping wet cunt just inches above my open mouth, I savored her sex juices as they dripped onto my tongue. Mistress Sidonia was really giving it some on the dildo, my cock was straining against its bonds, tucked securely between my legs.
“Come on bitch p*ss in the sluts mouth” she shouted. I coughed and choked as a hot stream of pee squirted into my mouth from the blonde girls cunt.
“Swallow it slut, I want every drop lapped up or I’ll have you licking it off the floor”. I gulped and swallowed resigned to my task whilst Mistress Sidonia continued to shaft herself on the strap on. As the blonde girl finished urinating she squashed her cunt over my mouth.
“Lick it clean slut, get that tongue of yours working on the bitches cunt” shouted Mistress Sidonia. I licked and slurped pushing my tongue deep into the girl’s cunt, savoring the sweet cocktail of her p*ss and sex juice. Both of them started to moan and jerk as they orgasmed, I felt their bodies relax, the blonde girl sat heavily on my face while Mistress Sidonia slumped onto me moaning softly.
“Up bitch” she said as she raised herself off the dildo “on your knees slut, she barked “head back mouth open!”
Mistress Sidonia stood over me and pulled my head up to her wet cunt. “Tongue out” she whispered, I felt her body tense and then relax and she let out a little moan of pleasure as she started to pee on my tongue and into my mouth.
“Drink it you little slut” she whispered ” enjoy your Mistresses’ nectar.” Again I gulped and slurped as copious amounts of hot p*ss splashed into my mouth and over my face. I pushed closer aware of a deep feeling of submission and adoration for Mistress Sidonia coursed through my body, She owned me she could do anything she wanted with me and I wanted her too. The blonde girl removed my strapon and cock ties, and my cock sprang up hard.
“Wank the slut-cock-bitch, fast and hard till it cums” Mistress Sidonia said. Pee still squirting over my face. The blonde girl wanked my cock, whispering in my ear she said “come on boy I want to feel and hear you cum.”
It wasn’t hard to obey, as my body tensed and jerked into orgasm she shoved a finger up my arse and stroked my prostate. I exploded into orgasm with a loud groan as my tongue continued to lap the last drops of pee from Mistress Sidonia’s fabulous cunt.
Mistress Sidonia pushed me away “Clean up your mess slut, we haven’t finished with you by a long chalk,” she said grinning that evil smile of hers…
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In Blood Red Art Photo Portraits of Dominant Women
The artist Ariel B turns her photographs into individual artworks. Gothic fairy tales, dances macabre, distant memories, otherness, otherworldliness, times gone by, death and decay are all preoccupations. This project produces portraits of prodoms and dominant women. She says dommes are the perfect subjects – creative, unique and exceptional individuals who deserve to be documented and memorialized through art. This series of images is loosely based around sexual deviance, suppressed female belligerence and the divine sacred feminine.
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art collection at her prestigious Decadence event, held at the magnificent Maxwell Manor, last year. Hanging every piece proved a touch too intricate in the timeframe, so we opted for a slideshow instead. The artworks were projected in glorious, larger-than-life scale across the walls of her pristine white boudoir room – creating a display that had everyone hooked.
Good BDSM play involves intense physical, sexual, psychological and emotional exchanges, sometimes as a consequence of this the submissive goes into an altered state. This is often referred to as ‘Subspace’. It is a difficult experience to define as it both manifests and is experienced differently by different subs.
A Few of My Favourite Things
I absolutely adore this paddle. It is breathtakingly beautiful — a true bespoke masterpiece, utterly one of a kind in the world. Crafted and gifted to me by my dear friends at AES, who specialised in exquisite, hand-made leather CP equipment. 
What does the M stand for?
